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330 A St. Patrick’s Day Post

3/4/2026

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I realize that I’m pushing the season a good deal with this St. Patrick's Day Post.  But according to my calendar, the actual, PROPER day to honor the patron saint of Ireland is going to fall on the day AFTER I am scheduled to put up my NEXT post.  That being the case, I have decided that I’m entitled to put my St. Patrick’s Day post up a wee bit early.  If you don’t like that, it’s probably because you haven’t got enough Irish in your blood, or soul, or have some other deficiency.  Of course, it COULD be that you just haven’t had enough of “the Good Stuff” recently, but I won’t go into that possibility.

St. Patrick is, of course, widely know as the primary patron saint of Ireland, but he’s actually more that that, being also the patron of Nigeria, in spite of never being formally canonized by the Catholic Church.  And, he is also a saint in the Lutheran Church, the Church of Ireland (Anglican), and the Eastern Orthodox Church, as well.  Not bad for a lad who was kidnapped by Irish pirates at age 16, eventually escaped from them, then became a cleric and went on to bring Christianity to northern and western Ireland.

Now, the Ancestry© DNA people tell me that I am 70+ % English, about 20+ % Gaelic/Celtic, and about (5+ %) North Central European with just a touch of Acadian thrown in to finish up my genetic heritage.   Anyway, I figure that I can identify as Irish if I wish to.  And I do, at least in part.  Among other things, back in my “folkie” youth, I was extremely fond of the music of The Clancy Brothers and Tommy Makem, the Irish folksingers, for what ever that’s worth.  They made good craic!

Anyway, I am rather fond of celebrating St. Paddy’s Day, although I do try not to overindulge on that occasion.  Still, I AM VERY fond of the fish and chips and the boxtys prepared in an Omaha pub known as “The Brazen Head,” (which is named for a pub that’s existed in Dublin since 1198 CE).  Now the Omaha Brazen Head wasn’t established until 1998 (800 years later), but that was a good while before I arrived here and it’s really a neat place.  They also make the most wonderful creamy Baked Onion soup, which I have ever eaten.  And, just for the record, I have been known to enjoy a “proper” draft pint of “the Black Stuff” with my food when I eat there.

So, you ask, what’s “the Black Stuff?”  There’s only one answer to that!
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Yup. Guinness Stout’s the thing!   Actually, I was a bit surprised a while back to learn that it has only 4.2% ABV, making it relatively mild in terms of the amount of alcohol it contains.  That kinda makes you wonder how the Irish got the reputation of being such drunkards.  I can remember folks (my fraternity brothers?) complaining (in the old days) that 3.2% beer was about as potent as water, and that REAL men wanted something like 6% ABV beer.  Oh, well, I disagree, for whatever that’s worth!  I generally have a single pint with food, so I figure that I don’t have to worry about becoming a drunkard.  But I do like a Guinness now and then, and it IS widely noted as being very popular with the Irish and (surprisingly, I thought) with the English, as well.  In fact, some folks would suggest that the picture below just MIGHT, in fact, be true in parts of Ireland. 

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For those who have had the misfortune of never having tasted Guinness, I offer the “official” description of it from a St. Patrick’s Day ad from a couple of years ago.  I admit to not being quite as elegant in my description of the taste of Guinness, I just like it.
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Then again, I’ve always felt that the “critics” of beers, wines, etc. are almost a silly as the “critics” of the arts.  I believe that everyone is entitled to their own likes and dislikes.  I refuse to accept the idea that I am somehow inferior because I prefer to make my own choices in food, the arts, and many other things, in spite of the fact that the “Experts” may say I’m “wrong.”  Just as with religion, you (or they) can have your (their) choices, but I insist that I have a right to make mine.  Which actually applies to most things, or, at least, it should.  

These are not really questions about Right and Wrong (or Right and Left), they MAY be questions about how people can look at the same facts and arrive at different conclusions, but that doesn’t give “experts?” and “leaders?” (NOTE: often self-appointed!) the right to insist that one side, or the other, must be correct (and required) because it’s THEIR ("knowledgeable?") choice, except (perhaps) in the case of public endangerment.  But enough of this, if we’d been drinking, I’d suggest that we’re approaching the need to make use of a Scottish Breathalyzer.  Does this make B.C. Celtic?
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In any event, in the (possibly mistaken belief) that we’re sober enough to continue, allow me to point out that St. Patrick can be celebrated in many ways on his day.  Here’s a possibility from The Family Circus.
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It’s also worth noting, I suppose, that some people seem to enjoy making fun of the fact that many Irish surnames take the form of “O’(something).”  I believe that the “O’” was/is used as a way of referring to someone having an ancestor of some noble (whose surname follows the O’).  Still, some folks like to have fun with it, as in this strip from Shoe.
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Actually, there IS a difference between an opossum and a possum, but I’ll let you look that up for yourself.

Ireland, of course, is the land of the leprechaun, that wee creature of Irish mythology who many of us would like to run into at the end of a rainbow, where he would give us all of his (considerable) gold.  Certainly, leprechauns are fun creatures to think about, as is the recent obsession with gnomes.  Now, both ARE somewhat similar, but they are, in fact,  different.  Based on some VERY brief research, gnomes apparently are of Germanic/Scandinavian origin and tend more towards outdoor, group activities, while leprechauns are Irish, and tend to be more mischievous and individually-oriented while collecting and burying their pots of gold.  Still they ARE somewhat similar, so I’m rather hard pressed to figure out whether the picture below is a gnome or a leprechaun, if it really matters.  Mostly, I just think it’s a fun image, so enjoy it!
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I suppose that what I’ve been heading towards with this whole post is the image below which I took from the website of a store called "The Celtic Ranch" in Weston, Missouri, which Bonnie and I have visited more than once and which sells actual, authentic Celtic (Irish & Scots) merchandise.  It’s a neat place and I’d suggest that it’s worth the trip, if you’re ever in the area along the river a bit north of Kansas City.  In any case, I like this sentiment.
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I think I’d like this even if it wasn’t labelled as “An Irish Toast,” but that idea sort of gets me back to the idea that a pint of “the Good/Black Stuff” will be appropriate when comes the day.  One MIGHT even suggest that it could be appropriate anytime one feels the desire, but that MIGHT be thought to encourage the excess of which we Irish are so often (and so frequently unjustifiably) accused.

I plan to be back in a couple of weeks, unless the ICE folks decide that the 1620 immigration of some of my English ancestors was too late (or is it too EARLY?) for me to be anything but an “undocumented immigrant," which WAS, of course, the case, since those “Mayflower Pilgrims” were NOT documented (except by the King of England, who claimed to "own" North America because he COULD, so he did!).  I guess that I should be glad that the locals (the indigenous peoples of “New England”) didn’t greet us like this:
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 (Notice that THESE "ICE" agents aren’t shown wearing masks!  Isn’t THAT  a surprise!)

Aren’t we lucky that events like this didn’t happen in those days?  I suspect that my ancestors were actually very thankful for the treatment THEY received from the “locals,” as they might well not have survived that first winter, without local assistance.  I suspect that the descendants of those “locals” might now wish that their ancestors hadn’t been quite so generous?  

I think it’s also worth remembering that virtually EVERY group of “foreigners” who have ever come to this country have been subjected to a variety of types of discrimination!  Irish, German, Polish, Italian, Arab, Jewish, Muslim, Catholic, some Protestant denominations, Scandinavian, Vietnamese, Japanese, Chinese, you name it.  EVERY identifiable group, based on race religion, ethnicity, or whatever, has been vilified by some “GOOD AMERICANS,” at least until the next group came along to pick on.  The recent behavior against Mexicans, Central and South Americans, etc. doesn’t even approach being unique.  But, I think it IS shameful!

Oh, well,  I’ll be back in a couple of weeks, if actual ICE agents don’t return to Omaha to come find me.

🖖🏻LLAP,

Dr. B

Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.  It is the only resort
by which incompetent men can thrive.  The bully, the brute, the dictator.
​                                                                                                           Isaac Asimov

Revenge is always the weak pleasure of a little and narrow mind. 
                                                                                                          Juvenal (from Satires)

The whole idea of revenge and punishment is a childish day-dream. 
Properly speaking there is no such thing as revenge.  Revenge is an
act which you want to commit when you are powerless and because
you are powerless: as soon as the sense of impotence is removed,
​the desire evaporates also.
                                                                                                         George Orwell

Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of
thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself: I am the LORD.
                                                                                                          Leviticus 19:18


P.S. I apologize if I’ve offended anyone by getting too political in this post.  I confess that I DO tend to get highly offended by the actions of those who argue that THEY should be the ones to decide who should be considered to be a “REAL American.”  After all, it CAN be factually demonstrated that, in a large majority of cases, that THEIR ancestors immigrated long AFTER at least some of mine, and certainly long after the ancestors of the “indigenous” American peoples.  It seems pretty certain that the “indigenous” people’s ancestors migrated to the Americas something like 15-20,000 years ago.  Of course, that assumes that you believe in scientific evidence, rather than so-called religious “facts” such as those advocated by Bishop Ussher and others.  The fact is that WE ARE A NATION OF IMMIGRANTS!  And, despite what the “Prove Me Wrong” folks might say, that IS a "provable" fact!  I think that the sooner we accept that, the sooner we can move beyond the current, bigoted foolishness being advocated by some of our “leaders!”
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329      It’s Lent, Ramadan & More Time!

2/18/2026

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According to my calendar of holidays, today, Feb. 18, 2026, marks the beginning of this year’s Lent for most Christians and the first day of Ramadan for Muslims.  I am told that this doesn’t happen too often, as those days are derived from different calendars, but, apparently, it did this year (at least depending on the time of moonrise).  And, by the way, yesterday was the beginning of the Lunar Year of the Horse, as well, if you want to be fussy.

Lent, of course, echoes the 40 days Jesus spent fasting in the desert and enduring temptation by Satan before beginning his public ministry, according to the Gospels of Matthew, Mark and Luke.  In most Lent-observing Christian denominations, Lent begins on Ash Wednesday and ends approximately six weeks later, concluding either on the evening of Maundy Thursday (Holy Thursday), or at sundown on Holy Saturday when the Easter Vigil is celebrated…. (Wikipedia, citation edited by RSB)
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Ramadan is the ninth month of the Islamic calendar.  It is observed by Muslims worldwide as a month of fasting, communal prayer, reflection, and community.  It is also the month in which the Quran is believed to have been revealed to the Islamic prophet Muhammad.  The annual observance of Ramadan is regarded as one of the five pillars of Islam and lasts twenty-nine to thirty days, from one sighting of the crescent moon to the next.  (Wikipedia)

The Lunar New Year is the beginning of a new year based on lunar calendars or, informally, lunisolar calendars.  Better-known lunar new year celebrations include those based on the (lunar) Islamic calendar which originated in the Middle East.  Lunisolar new year celebrations include those of the (lunisolar) Hebrew calendar from the same region; the (lunisolar) Chinese calendar and Tibetan calendar of East Asia; and the (lunisolar) Buddhist and Hindu calendars of South and Southeast Asia.  (Wikipedia, edited by RSB)

Anyway, discovering these facts, got me to thinking about what one might call “religious stuff.”  Now, I have no interest in doing anything related to “converting” anyone to any particular belief system.  That’s your business and you are welcome to believe whatever you wish, provided that you leave me alone with my beliefs whether they are like yours, or not.  As one of European extraction, I do have some familiarity with the basic ideas of Christianity (I’m NOT going to get into its MANY variations.), and I have had a bit of exposure to some Judaic notions (which, of course, WERE the origin of many of the Christian ideas).  I confess to little knowledge of Islamic ideas, or those of ANY of the religions of Asia.  My only real study of these sorts of things (other than some fairly casual reading) was in one “Introduction to World Religions” course, which I took as an undergraduate.  I am quite aware that, while I may have some interest, I have NO expertise in such matters, nor any great desire to acquire such.  I have, however, encountered the fact that most religions which I know anything about do seem to have some threads of commonality, no matter how much they may differ in other ways.

​One of these threads (it seems to me) is the idea which has come to be known as “The Golden Rule.”  I suspect most readers can cite at least ONE version of it, but did you know how widespread it is?  I didn’t until I ran across this (below) a while ago.
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THE GOLDEN RULE IS COMMON TO ALL RELIGIONS

BUDDHISM. Hurt not others with that which pains yourself. Udanavarga.

CHRISTIANITY. All things whatsoever ye would that men should do to
you, do ye even so to them: for this is the law and the prophets. Bible, St. Matthew.


CONFUCIANISM. Is there any one maxim which ought to be acted upon throughout one's whole life?
Surely the maxim of lovingkindness is such -
Do not unto others what you would not they should do unto you. Analects.


HEBRAISM. What is hurtful to yourself do not to your fellow man. That is
the whole of the Torah and the remainder is but commentary. Go learn it.
Talmud.

HINDUISM. This is the sum of duty: do naught to others which if done to
thee, would cause thee pain. Mahabharata.

ISLAM. No one of you is a believer until he loves for his brother what he
loves for himself. Traditions.


JAINISM. In happiness and suffering, in joy and grief, we should regard all
creatures as we regard our own self, and should therefore refrain from
inflicting upon others such injury as would appear undesirable to us if
inflicted upon ourselves. Yogashastra.


SIKHISM. As thou deemest thyself so deem others. Then shalt thou
become a partner in heaven. Kabir.


TAOISM. Regard your neighbor's gain as your own gain: and regard your
neighbor's loss as your own loss. Tai Shang Kan Ying Pien.


ZOROASTRIANISM. That nature only is good when it shall not do unto
another whatever is not good for its own self. Dadistan-i-dinik.
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"We have committed the Golden Rule to memory,
let us now commit it to life.”


EDWIN MARKHAM

Now, that’s a fair bunch of major religions all seeming to agree on, essentially, the same thing, “Treat others the way you’d like to be treated.”  That seems pretty simple (and basic) to me, which makes me wonder why there so often seem to be (and to have been) conflicts (even wars!) between religions.

I would go so far as to venture to suggest that ALL “established” religions (traditions, practices, faiths, let’s not get tied up in nomenclature) seem to think that they exist, for the most part, for the betterment of the human race; to help people to live longer, better, happier lives by helping to establish a sense of order in a frequently chaotic seeming universe.  

​Unfortunately, what I encounter as I look around, in far too many cases, seems to be better represented by THIS image.

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Okay, I don’t think Wiley (the creator of Non Sequitur) was truly interested in suggesting the value of a non-denominational approach to religion, as desirable as that might be.  No, I believe that he was trying to point out that what leads to many (most?) “religious” conflicts is the notion that “We (US, real, true believers!) are right!  Therefore, everybody else MUST be wrong, and probably should be stopped.”

Personally, I’m rather fond of the idea of a “Church” like the one mentioned in the Reduced Shakespeare Company’s play, The Ultimate Christmas Show (abridged) which takes place at “St. Everybody’s Non-Denominational Universalist Church, where all faiths are welcome because we’ll believe anything.”  
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Now I’m not suggesting (nor, do I think that the RSC was) that beliefs can’t, or shouldn’t, be of some importance to the people who have them.  However, I also believe that the real point of this play (and, perhaps, religion as a whole) should be what I think is suggested by Mike Luckovich’s cartoon shown below.
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To put it simply, I believe that religion should provide us with a means for getting along in the world even with those who may be different from us and/or have somewhat different values, etc.  My suspicion is that what has, seemingly, led virtually all religions astray, is that they have become businesses.  That simple fact may well have led to the “We are right, so you are wrong and should be stopped!” attitude which I have encountered from many people who believe that THEIR religion MUST be true because it’s THEIRS!
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As a sometime reader of science fiction, I’ve read most of Robert A. Heinlein’s works.  In his For Us the Living, he argues:   
All forms of organized religion are alike in certain social respects.  Each claims to be the sole custodian of the essential truth.  Each claims to speak with final authority on all ethical questions.  And every church has requested, demanded, or ordered the state to enforce its particular system of taboos.  No church ever withdraws its claims to control absolutely by divine right the moral life of the citizens.  If the church is weak, it attempts by devious means to turn its creed and discipline into law.  If it is strong, it uses the rack and the thumbscrew.  To a surprising degree, churches in the United States were able, under a governmental form which formally acknowledged no religion, to have placed on the statutes the individual church's code of moral taboos, and to wrest from the state privileges and special concessions amounting to subsidy.  Especially was this true of the evangelical churches in the middle west and south, but it was equally true of the Roman Church in its strongholds.  It would have been equally true of any church; Holy Roller, Mohammedan, Judaism, or headhunters.  It is a characteristic of all organized religion, not of a particular sect.   pp. 83-84
Now I’m not going to suggest that I am in complete agreement with all of Heinlein’s ideas, but I would suggest that there appears to be a degree of truth in these comments of his.  The U.S. Bill of Rights makes it quite clear that “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;…”  That would seem pretty straightforward, but one can’t dispute that Heinlein’s points do seem pretty well founded; that arguments based on religious beliefs have often been cited in legal cases and they have not always failed, in spite of the clear statement of First Amendment.  
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I think that the real thrust of Heinlein’s point in the above is that just because an idea, especially one of a religious nature, becomes popular, that does not justify it being considered as proper material to be established as a law.  I have long had the suspicion that this part of the First Amendment exists primarily because our founding fathers KNEW that THEY did NOT all agree on at least some questions of religion, and that the idea of a STATE religion (common in much of the Western world at that time) was unlikely to assist in “forming a more perfect union.”  So, they side-stepped the problem by establishing that we would NOT have a national religion; that religion can, and should, be left up to the individual citizen to decide for him/herself, and that the legal system should keep its hands out of matters of religious belief and practice completely.  As the First Amendment says “Congress shall make NO law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;….” (emphasis added, RSB)

I find the current state in which so many of our political “leaders” seem to think it’s to their political advantage to brag of THEIR religious affiliation (which many of them don’t seem to be all that aggressive about actually practicing) and to disparage those of their opponents, whose beliefs may be somewhat different.  As one whose has been baptized as a Christian, I find it especially troubling that many of the worst offenders  here, claim to be Christian.  I guess that they wish to disassociate themselves from the facts of Jesus’ life, as indicated by John Fugelsang in the sign below: 
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Now I will admit that I probably wouldn’t have stated these ideas in quite this way, but I can’t find any place in the above where Fugelsang has, in fact, been less than accurate in describing the one often described as the “Son of God.”  Now, I am NOT a serious Religious, nor Roman Empire, scholar, but everything he says about Jesus seems to me to be accurate, if somewhat bluntly stated.  
When one of my my daughters wished to get married a few years ago, during the recent pandemic, she was unable to find a legal “officiant” to perform the ceremony due to legitimate fear of spreading the disease).  So, I looked into it and learned that it’s possible to become “legally ordained” online, so that I could “officiate” for this occasion.  In that process, I discovered the I can quite fully support the ideas espoused by the Universal Life Church on their website @www.themonastary.org.  On that site, the ULC defines itself by saying: 
The Universal Life Church (ULC) is a non-denominational religious
organization that brings together people from all walks of life. We embrace
individuals across the spiritual spectrum; anyone who wants to join our
body of faith is welcome to do so. Further, the ULC is proud to open its
doors to all people, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, race,
ethnicity, or any other defining characteristic. Since the organization's
founding, we've provided legal ordination to over 20 million ministers
worldwide.

​The ULC has only two core tenets that ministers must uphold:

1.     Do only that which is right.
2.     Every individual is free to practice their religion however they like as
long as their actions do not impinge upon the rights or freedoms of others
and are in accordance with the law.
Therefore, I became a duly “ordained” Minister of the ULC, and was able to serve as my daughter’s “officiant.”  The most important thing, however, is that I can, and do, buy into these principles, and try to follow them.  But, my religion is my business and yours is yours!  What ultimately really matters is what kind of person you are, how you treat others, etc.  Which Deity, or Deities, if any, you chose to worship (if you engage in such practices) makes no real difference, as long as you respect MY right to have beliefs different from yours.  We all SEEM to have a basic notion of right and wrong.  The simplest expression of this is simple kindness and toleration. 

Recall, if you will, that Jesus used a Samaritan as an example of how one should behave, if you remember THAT parable.  I’d bet that it was because Samaritans and Jews were most often at odds with each other, each group actively disliking the other one.  It’s also worth noting that a priest and a Levite (Levites were a Jewish tribe which served particular religious duties for the Israelites and had political and educational responsibilities as well) are specifically indicated as having passed the injured man by in the story, but the (hated) Samaritan was the one who went out of his way to provide assistance to him.  Think about what THAT could imply.  I think it’s worth considering the implications of that story in today’s world, but that may just be the “minister” in me coming out.


I expect to be back in a couple of weeks.  I wonder what I’ll ramble on about then?

🖖🏻 LLAP

Dr. B
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328      Valentine's Day Approaches

2/4/2026

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​Well, as I write this post I notice that Valentine’s Day (Saint Valentine’s Day, if you want to be completely correct) is approaching, and will be here before my next scheduled post.  I am told that Valentine became associated with romantic love during the 14th Century and that Geoffrey Chaucer helped popularize this idea.  In any case, that idea is commonly associated with Valentine, so it seemed appropriate to see what I might come up with to chat about in relation to that idea.  So here goes.

I DO suggest celebrating this day with the one you love the most.  I do NOT suggest that you (men!) follow the example of the man in the story below.  That would appear to be less than wise for obvious reasons.

Since most of us think about Romantic Love on this day especially, it’s probably wise to make sure that one is aware of the complications of the “dating” process which has become a major part of seeking that status.  Dating, of course, implies meeting a potential candidate with whom to enter into the “Romantic Love”status.  This part of the whole process seems to have become more complicated than it used to be, as is suggested in this Non Sequitur strip from a while back.
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​SOMETIMES, however, the “relationship” actually progresses (and stays OFF of YOUTUBE, etc., long enough) to actually become a “thing.”  Most guys, I am forced to admit, don’t always find it easy to admit, let alone explain, their attraction to (and/or affection for) a particular potential partner, even when they really try to do so.  It would seem that there is considerable pressure among much of the MACHO gender, to suppress expressing ones “emotional” side, which doesn’t mean that it doesn’t sneak out from time to time, but it may take a close examination of what is SAID to determine what is MEANT.  

I offer this from For Better or For Worse as an example
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I would suggest that Gordo may have some ‘splainin’ to do to Tracey, as she doesn’t seem to appreciate his comments related to “trade-en her in” in the last frame.  Oh, well, these little things either work themselves out, or they don’t, and the people move on one way or another.

Surprisingly enough, Jon and Garfield seem to have actually found someone who TOTALLY fits their mutual desires.
 
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​I confess that I frequently wonder why Liz actually puts up with Jon (and/or Garfield), but, as the Romans said “De gustibus non est disputandum” (rough translation: “There’s no accounting for taste.”) which certainly seem to be true in “Romantic” matters.

In general, however, it appears that a great many people DO end up in a “Romantic” relationship which may well last for an extended period of time.  Some of them even come to appreciate that relationship as becoming an important part of their life (which probably often defies explanation, which is why it’s “ROMANTIC!” 

As an example of such a relationship, I offer this image of Hagar (better known as Hagar the Horrible), who doesn’t seem as “horrible” as he usually tries to be in THIS strip.
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Now, this strip (below) from Pickles seems to suggest that a certain amount of “give and take” may, on occasion, enter into longer-term relationships.
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​I don’t find that partnership either surprising, nor UN “romantic.”  I’ve always considered most worthwhile relationships to imply a certain amount of cooperation, and (since that’s worked for me in my quite lengthy relationship with Bonnie — since about late 1964 or early 1965), it still seems to be reasonable to me.  Hence, I don’t find Opal’s question offensive and/or unreasonable.  In fact, said the guy who has usually done the dishes, when he was able to get home for dinner (what with rehearsals, performances, etc.) most of the time for all these years, it seems to be little enough for me to do, considering what Bonnie does for me.

I confess that when I encounter ideas like those expressed in the Between Friends strip below relating to the expectations of younger people, I just feel sorry.
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​I guess that I have always thought that the purpose of a “Romantic” relationship was the desire to establish (and to maintain) a permanence and stability in the relationship which seems to be most desirable for remaining together, having children and continuing a permanent one which is actually healthy and desirable.  It may not be the fastest way to get rich, but I’ve never thought that just acquiring money was an intelligent way to achieve happiness.  AND, as I watch the news, it seems to me that a great number of the “rich and famous” are, to my way of thinking, rather sad, unhappy people desperately trying to buy happiness and finding that it’s not really available from just having money.  

I’d suggest that a bit of a sense of humor, a willingness to share the joys AND the sorrows of life, and to just support your partner is probably more important than just having great wealth.  Which isn’t to say that having money isn’t nice, but I think it can be a bit of a burden, as well.  After all, money doesn’t make one laugh.

Speaking of non-financial partnerships, cooperation, and  humor, I ran across this little story a while back and found it amusing.  I would NOT suggest that guys should repeat what the husband in this story says, but, I will confess that I DID find this funny.  The story is entitled: “A Wife is ABCDEFGHIJK” and it goes like this:
After being married for 25 years, a wife asked her husband to describe her.  


He looked at her carefully, then said, 'You are A, B, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J, K.’  


'What does that mean?' she asked suspiciously.


He said, 'Adorable, Beautiful, Cute, Delightful, Elegant, Foxy, Gorgeous and Hot!’


She beamed at him happily and said: 'Oh, that's so lovely!  But what about I, J and K?’


Then he said, ’I'm Just Kidding!’


NOTE: I understand that the swelling in his eye is going down and the doctors are reasonably confident that there was no permanent damage.
As Valentine’s Day approaches, I hope that you have a chance to spend some time with your “Romantic Partner,” whomever he (or she) may be.  I’d suggest a quiet place where you can just be together, talk quietly and LISTEN to each other.  I think you’ll discover that that’s a kind of richness you can’t put in a bank.

I’ll be back in a couple of weeks,

🖖🏻 LLAP,

Dr. B


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327      More Stuff Seen Along the Way

1/21/2026

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As anyone who has read more than a few of these posts has probably figured out, I have a habit of collecting pictures of “interesting” signs and other visual “stuff” which I discover as I wander about, literally or figuratively.  And, sometimes, but not as often as I would really like, but on occasion, the resulting pictures are of things I have actually seen (and photographed) myself as I have wandered about.  

Many of them, are, obviously, pictures of stuff I have found among the various places I have wandered (or blundered) into online.  I also, must admit that I “collect” cartoons from various online sites published by newspapers, magazines and cartoon publishers.  I suppose that I shouldn’t admit that I am aware that what I find on those sites IS copyrighted material, so I should pay (or at least get permission) to use it, which I admit I have rarely done.  But, to be honest, I really doubt that the owners of that material are likely to sue me because: 1.) they couldn’t get much, as I’m NOT a wealthy person; 2.) I think it’s highly unlikely that my readership is large enough to cause significant damage to their audience, 3.) I do at least try to cite the sources of such material, and; 4.) I suspect (hope?) that my readers, few as they may be, might be more likely to seek out some of these cartoons after first encountering them in one of my posts, which would increase their readership.  Anyway, I haven’t heard any complaints yet, and I hope I don’t.

All this is leading up to another post dealing with pictures of “stuff” I’ve encountered in  my wanderings through life and the Internet.  Most of the pictures included are ones I’ve found intriguing/interesting in some way.  In any event, I’ve enjoyed them and I thought others might, as well.  So, here goes.

I took this picture (which I MAY have used before?) of a decorated evergreen in a front yard of a home not too far from our house a few years ago during the holiday season.  I found it VERY amusing.  I confess that whenever I drive down that street during the holidays these days I miss this gnome.  I understand that the tree has grown too big for this to work now, but I do miss it and am glad I got this picture when I did.
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On a completely different note, when I encountered (online) this picture of a sign in a Walmart (perhaps?), I practically went into hysterics.  I find it hard to conceive that NO ONE in the store caught the obvious fact that this sign was going to be seen as quite (sadly) amusing, AND that it would serve as a demonstration of the lack of awareness of the people who put it up.  I would suggest that I’ve seen some pretty tasteless advertising in my life, but I think this struck me as achieving something of a new low.  While I found it amusing, this situation would certainly mark a sad day on Sesame Street.
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Now, I hasten to point out that not long after the ad above, I ran across the picture (below) somewhere online, which (while fairly tasteless) at least has the virtue of being pretty funny, at least to me.  Now, anyone who has ever been to a Costco or a Sam’s Club would recognize THIS situation.  On the other hand, I suspect that few of us have encountered one of the “sample people” offering this, particular, product for sampling very often.  I would suggest that it’s perfectly legitimate to do so, but it DOES seem like a rather unusual choice of things to “sample.”
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Speaking of unusual, when I saw the picture below I had to admit that I thought it was really clever, but, perhaps, a bit peculiar.  Then I figured that I was back in the Midwest where there is a large supply of wheat, hay and other grain crops grown, and it didn’t seem quite as improbable.  What do you think?  Of course, this ISN’T really a haySTACK, but, I suppose it will do!
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One MIGHT, of course, suggest that the picture above has probably been “photoshopped” in its creation, so, while it might be amusing, it’s highly likely that it’s not actually REAL.  Okay, says I, you want something unusual, but REAL?  How’s THIS!
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This is an ACTUAL picture of an ACTUAL place near the town of Alliance, Nebraska.  I haven’t actually been to see it, but this IS a picture of it and I am more than satisfied that it actually exists!  It’s called “Carhenge” and you can look it up, and see more pictures online, for yourself, if you don’t believe me!  

When the regional LEGO fanatics had a showing of their creations in Council Bluffs, among the other exhibits, was a LEGO version of Carhenge.    
I confess, I thought it quite well done.  So, here’s a picture of the “LEGO Carhenge.”
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Of course, as I suggested earlier, signs along the road form a significant part of the “stuff” one sees (and I collect) along the way, so I don’t want to wrap this up without including at least one actual sign.  

I liked this one because it WAS an actual sign, AND it poses an interesting question, which MIGHT have served to attract some attention to the business which posted it.  If nothing else, it suggests that the owner?/manager? has a bit of a sense of humor.
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In closing, while I certainly suspect that the picture below has been “created” rather than actually just taken, I confess that I found it pretty funny, so I decided to include it here.  It’s not in the BEST of taste perhaps, but it IS pretty amusing, if you think about it.
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I suppose that I should definitely quit now, before I stray even further from the path of delicacy.  I expect to be back in a couple of weeks.  I don’t have a plan yet, but I’ll probably come up with something to jabber on about.  See you then?
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326 Mondays Is STILL a Hard Time!

1/7/2026

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​A fair time back, I put up #238 of these posts which was entitled “Mondays Is a Hard Time, #1.”  While I think that the title should be self explanatory to anyone who has ever faced the “It’s Monday and I have to get up, etc.” experience, I do not intend to repeat my complete explanation of that title here.  (If you really care, the original post was #238, posted in August of 2022 and it’s in the archives of this web site.)

In any case, in spite of the fact that I really thought that I might eventually completely “settle into my retirement,” I find that I have not yet been able to see Mondays as “just another day.”  It seems that they will be forever and always the FIRST DAY of the WORK week and, therefore, the hardest day to actually have to face.  I suppose that I should have known that this would probably be the case, but I have (quite gradually) come to realize that such expectations were unrealistic.  SO, I figured I might pass along some of my newly acquired knowledge (through the use of some of the cartoons, etc.) which have helped me to survive these trying days.  THEREFORE, herein I present “Mondays Is a Hard Time, #2” (also known as “Mondays Is STILL a Hard Time!”  Enjoy and learn from my experience.

Having been a “cat person” (therefore fond of the cartoon Garfield) I SHOULD have reached a better understanding of Mondays many years ago.  Garfield, after all, has, seemingly, always been of the opinion that a week without a Monday would be a just fine sort of thing.  Since it often took more coffee than usual for ME to get going on Mondays, I definitely can understand Garfield’s “First Rule of Mondays” as expressed in this strip:
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After all, the alternative (as expressed by Garfield below) wasn’t often even remotely possible if I wished to avoid getting more buried than usual with teaching duties, design duties, TD duties, and administrative duties, etc.  In any event, here’s one of Garfield’s solutions to the “Monday problem.”
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​I must confess that there were MANY Monday mornings when I wished to be able to engage in Garfield’s response, but VERY few where it was even remotely possible..

There were also times when I felt quite a lot like Dagwood in this Blondie strip.
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Most of the time, however, at least while I was working full-time, my technique regarding “Monday Survival” mostly resembled Garfield’s.
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​Yes, it’s true, I was never very fond of Mondays and Garfield did, on occasion, provide a satisfactory explanation of that phenomenon.  He also, on occasion, provided some actual advice for dealing with that situation.  (see below)
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​Unfortunately, Garfield, the comic strip, in addition to having one brilliant cat, is also populated by Garfield’s person, Jon, who seems to be a good representative of the completely CLUELESS among us.  (See below)
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In any case, I have never been fond of Mondays and that really hasn’t changed all that much since I retired.  There’s just something about Monday which is unattractive and unappealing.  On the other hand, there ARE other things which I dislike almost as much (and NO, I am NOT going to even consider touching on politics)!  There really are OTHER things which I would consider unpleasant.  (See below)
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​And, he hastened to point out, Garfield, Dagwood, and I are, apparently, not the only ones with something of an aversion to Mondays.  It would seem that Aunty Acid is also one of the few, the proud, the correct, the “Monday Haters,” if the panel below is asking the correct question (as I, of course, feel it must be).
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​Still, I, and the rest of us who suffer through Mondays, will testify that even Mondays ARE survivable, if not well-loved.  I would suggest that coffee and determination help considerably.  

So, like Aunty Acid in the cartoon below, I give you this wishful advice in dealing with the “Monday Morning Blues.”
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After all, things could be worse, someone could try to rearrange the calendar so that there would be more than one Monday in a week.  (Now THAT’S scary!!!)

I’ll be back in a couple of weeks, and I promise that I’ll try to find a more cheerful topic for next time.
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325 Holiday Greetings - 2025

12/22/2025

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I had thought that I would put up this post on Sunday the 21st, which was early for my usual schedule, but this IS a rather busy time for most folks, including us.  Then things got a bit weird in that our Internet went down last Thursday, the 18th, at about noon with a complicated series of problems which have only today, Monday, been given enough of a temporary fix that it works at all.  This, of course, reminded me of how dependent we have all become on our technology and how inconvenient it is when it isn’t working.  Anyway, we seem to be back in business now, at least for the time being.  So, I can put up this post about what the extended R.S.Beam clan has been up to during this past year for anyone who is interested.  Enjoy!
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I plan to be back along about Jan. 7 (which should get me back to my usual posting schedule) with more of my usual blather.  Now, one can never be too sure about what the New Year will bring, but that IS my plan.  So, based on that belief, I hereby wish to reassure my readers that, like MacArthur, I SHALL return!  I hope you will do so as well.  In the meantime, have the happiest of holidays and a great New Year!
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